Do you feel like nothing ever works for your child or teen? Have you consulted all “the books” on parenting?
Do other moms, teachers, your family, and your in-laws think they have all the answers, but they really just don’t get it?
Do you feel like parenting is more “work” than your actual career, and it kinda makes you feel embarrassed to admit it?
I mean, really, no one warned you that parenting is a competitive sport these days? Or that some days you want to pull your hair out and scream? That wasn’t in the brochure, was it?
Sometimes it seems like all the other kids are happily running to catch the school bus, but your child or teen is always struggling with either academics, athletics, and/or social situations?
Is your kid moody, destructive, hypersensitive, and/or miserable? They could be at either extreme. They may be happy, but only when they are defying you and their teachers. And the teacher is about to throw him/her out of school (if it hasn’t happened already)! Or they have no friends, no play dates, low self-esteem, and just generally no joy in childhood.
It doesn’t have to be that way.
Schools aren’t raising your kids — you are, and it’s up to you to make the right choices — if only you knew what the hell to do with the sometimes helpful — and sometimes useless — information being thrown at you.
How can you distinguish between good and not-so-good advice? How can you know if what worked for someone else’s kid can work for yours? When you know your kid’s 5 element type, your confidence surges because you know you are making the right choices, based on your kid’s unique personality type.
I can help you do that using the 5 Element Parenting step-by-step method:
Step 1 – Identify your kid’s 5 element type (wood, fire, earth, metal or water). If you have multiple kids, they may be different types. We’ll figure it out.
Step 2 – Identify your 5 element type and your partner’s type.
Step 3 – Learn how to parent based on your element and your kids’ elements.
Step 4 – Become that mom that always gets compliments on your kids!
Here’s what we’ll do together in weekly video calls in whichever program is right for you:
The Private One-on-One, On-Call, VIP version — weekly video conference or phone calls for 3 months, which includes being able to send me instant messages and getting a quick response while you’re in that challenging parenting moment and about to do the wrong thing!
The Small Group (4 – 5 people) version — weekly video conference calls or dial in using your phone for 3 months, which includes unlimited email access and response within 2 business days.
Both options include my Definitive Guide to Raising Kids of all 5 Elements, as well as a 1:1 private kick-off meeting to review an extensive assessment for each of your kids.
In our time together, I will help you:
- Help your child or teen want to listen to authority figures, rather than making it a daily battle
- Help your child or teen learn how to make friends (the method depends on his/her unique personality type)
- Help your child or teen find/appreciate his/her nature and natural gifts, even if others think he/she is being “bad”
- Give your child or teen the confidence to succeed in school — even if other kids tend to pick on him/her, or even if your child is the bully that others are complaining about
- Put a stop to sibling rivalry, thereby preventing a lifetime of crippling inferiority issues for some children
- Enjoy motherhood the way it was meant for YOU (each mom has her own style)
- Improve your marriage/partnership by meeting at a logical halfway point between conflicting parenting styles
- Skyrocket your mood and confidence as other moms start to notice how happy your child is, and they may even ask you for parenting advice!
How would it feel to just enjoy this stage of life and not be counting the years until your child goes to college?
How would it feel to see your child happy and confident, owning his/her talents and weaknesses, and understanding how and why certain kids and teachers react to him/her in different ways?